Please bookmark our new website address - many thanks
http://www.valgraysbcrescue.org.uk
This is the sad page, where our beloved ones can be
remembered. Val can add your tribute
to your Valgray dog and also any lovely Valgray owners/folk who have left us too
soon (please email your wording/pictures). Val started this off with a tribute to her wonderful Mother who so sadly
passed away in 2004.
* When emailing your tribute, please DO NOT have photos embedded into the text, please send wording separately and attach any photos you would like me to use. Many thanks.
NOTE: New stories will be shown as the top paragraph for a few weeks, and will then be moved into dogs pet name in alphabetical order (loved doggy people are below the dogs)
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Their Journey's Just Begun : by Ellen Breeneman Don't think of them as gone away , their journey's just begun Life holds so many facets, this earth is only one. Just think of them as resting, from the sorrows and the tears, In a place of warmth and comfort, where there are no days or years. Think how they must be wishing, that we could know today, How nothing but our sadness, can really pass away. And think of them as living, in the hearts of those they touched ... For nothing loved is ever lost - and they were loved so much.
We Thought of You : Author Unknown
We thought of you with love today,
Only I Can See : Author Unknown We have a secret, you and I, that no one else shall know, For who but I can see you lie each night in the fire glow? And who but I can reach out my hand, before we got to bed, And feel the living warmth of you, and touch your silken head? And only I walk woodland paths, and see ahead of me, Your small form racing with the wind, so young again and free? And only I can see you swim in every brook we pass, And when I call, no one but I, can see the bending grass. |
When
Tomorrow Starts Without Me |
There is a lovely 'candles for remembrance' site which I have made up exclusively for Valgrays. Here you can click on a candle and leave a short message about your loved one. Unfortunately the candles only stay alight for 24 hours, but you can go back in again after that time and start a new one. The direct link to the Valgray Group is below. You click on a picture of an unlit candle to start. Where it says 'few words of dedication' you can add a short message and end it with your name. Where it says 'initial your candle', I recommend you put a shortened version of your lost ones name in (not your own name) so you can find all candles left for that particular person/dog. Anyone can read the messages you put into the candles. Just click on any lit candle to read the messages. I hope you like this site.
CLICK HERE TO GO TO THE VALGRAYS IN MEMORY CANDLE SITE

IN LOVING MEMORY OF ALAN POLLOCK WHO SADLY DIED ON 13TH OCTOBER 2011
It was with great sadness I learnt about the death of Alan. We went back many years. In 1976, we were married after a four year courtship, and then we sadly divorced in April 1999. Alan shared a big part of my life with my love of both dog agility and horses
. We took part in the Barbour Pairs which we won with George and Meg, and then we were in the winning team for The Ted Groom Trophy. He did, however, prefer to be organising events like the Purley and Coulsdon Agility Shows which we ran for a number of years.
During that time we had many good and not so good times, but, out of it, we had our beautiful daughter, Vikki. Alan, a police traffic officer, was married to the job! I shared most of his police career - 27 years of it - and I saw him through many good and bad experiences.
When we met, he had only been in the police around a year so there are quite a few funny stories I could tell... Of course, when our marriage ended I was very sad but, over the years, I moved on and found happiness as did Alan. Alan was - and always will be - very much in my heart.
It was only a little while ago he phoned me and that conversation will always remain very dear to me as are the letters he often wrote.
My condolences to his friends that he has made over the years, but my biggest sympathy goes to Vikki his only daughter who never had the chance to say goodbye.
Rest in peace Alan, no more demons.
Loved you and will never forget you.
Val Phillips (pollock)
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MY DAD
To late was I to say goodbye
To late to say farewell
I never had the offer
To see you on that day!
I now have only memories
And days of big regrets,
as I didn't get to see you
the day you passed away
My love for you will be forever
My love for you will never die
But Dad I wish that I could say
That one word that I miss
I should have said it to you
and showed you with a kiss.
But dad I wish that I'd been told
To keep this from me was so cold!
How ill you had become
At least I then would have had the chance
To hold you one more time
If only this if, if only that, if only I'd been told
It's just too late to tell you Dad
I loved you to thee end of time.
With all my Love
Vikki
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In Loving Memory
of Muffin
loved so much by Marian Shephard
Sadly died 29th August 2011
Today I lost my beautiful Muffin. She came from Valgrays 16 years ago at the tender age of 11 months. To my horror after a short time we found she was in pup.Val took her back and she had the pups on the night Princess Di died.
Being so young she would have nothing to do with the pups, so Val hand reared them. Muffin came home and took the nick name Muffy Duffin. Just because she wanted to ‘duff up’ any dog that did not live in her household.
After a short time, and a few good talkings to she became the most wonderful girl, she loved everyone and everyone loved her.There were times when she made me look a right idiot.
Like the time I took her to agility (thinking she is from working stock on a Welsh farm) will need to do something with her. At the class were several collie owners that had got their collies from me, each one had been told by me that they must do something with their dog as they must be stimulated.
Out came Muffin, she took one look at the jumps and decided it was far easier to go under instead of over them. Nothing on gods earth was going to make her jump them.
She never ever went after a ball, but she would round up the other dogs that did. If they lost it she would stand and look at it, as much as to say it’s here but I’m not a retriever.
Muffin I will miss you so much, and I will never forget you.
Never has a dog been more loved then you
Rest in peace my precious.
Marian Shepard
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In memory of Mist who was a puppy of muffin who
was put to sleep this year
We lost are best friend after 14 years of fun we picked up mist
from Valgrays as a tiny not really knowing what sort of dog we
had a collie cross but with what
.Mist was the best goal keeper in the world he should of played
for England my two boys played endlessly with him in goal ,he
loved playing with the ball and you were never aloud to sit in
the garden when he had a ball .
We then moved to Bognor Regis we have a house just of the beach
this is when we found out he loved the water even in the winter
he went in the sea ( I'm not that mad ) he was not keen on other
dogs as he thought he was human and not a dog he use to curl up
his lip and do his Elvis impression.
He will be very missed by the family and our other dog which is
a German Shepherd we never in the world thought they would ever
get on but they did ..
Love you forever Colin and Kerry may
MIST Was put to sleep on Sept 29th 2011
11th June 2011
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IN LOVING MEMORY OF DON NUNN
14th August 2011

Picture of Don with Kez The Bandit of Valgrays

It is with deep sadness that I received the news of Don Nunn that he had passed away at a dog show...... I could not function all day. Don was a gentleman,
he always had time to talk, or sometimes a quick nod, head down and a little wave as he marched to another ring to walk the course.
I've known Don for years, and we had some laughs. Christine was always steering him away from me as she knew we would talk about yet another rescue dog.
Don held the flag for Valgrays in taking on Kez the Bandit of Valgrays. And what a partnership they were! I feel honoured and proud to have had this friendship with Don.
When I was in hospital recently Don emailed me most weeks to check on my health status.
I will truly miss Don. My sincere condolences go to Christine, family and friends.
With deepest sympathy to all.
RIP Don.
Will never forget you.
Love Val
Josie 1996 - 2011
We lost our beautiful girl, Josie, on 13th June 2011.
She ws the kindest, most loving dog you could have wished for.
She loved people and dogs, you could take her anywhere and was
idolised by our other two Collies.
We adopted her in 2004 from Marian at Petersfield. She was about
8 years old and came in with an 11 year old Collie called Megan.
She had obviously been illtreated in the past as she was quite
head shy and it took a long time for her to trust men in general.
She soon became a loyal companion to my husband and myself and
loved our other Collies Max and Storm.
She gained her Bronze and Silver Good Citizen awards and narrowly
missed passing her Gold.
(She couldn't see me in her out of sight stay and stood up to
see where I was). She was around 15 years of age and although
in good spirits her back legs finally gave out.
She has left a huge gap in our lives and we will love and miss
her always.
Nicky, Keith, Max and Storm
Lady Kelly Of Valgrays - 2011

It is very sad but I have to tell you that Kelly was put to sleep
earlier this week.
She had facial twitching attacks which would last for half an
hour and really distressed her as they seemed to affect her sight
which wasn't too good at the best of times, after an attack she
was unsteady on her legs.
She then started to lose control of her legs without the twitching
attacks and was falling over and then hard lumps started growing
around the neck area which if they were touched made her unhappy
and she so loved being scratched under the ears
. So we made the decision (on Vets advice) that it would be kinder
to let her go before she started losing total use of her legs
and the lumps were coming up in other places where glands are
situated.
I would like to thank you for letting me share all these years
with her, she wasn't the fastest dog but she was so accurate and
really loved taking part in agility with me or just having a cuddle.
I can't put into words just how much she meant to me.
But most of all thank you.
Kind regards Jean Croydon
Valgrays Tigs The Terror
07.07.1997 - 19.04.2011
Heather Noddle

I type this through my tears as I have to tell you that our
beloved Tiggy passed away this morning.
She went peacefully, surrounded and cuddled by family, who are
all distraught.
She had spent this last week battling the fatal blood disorder
Thrombocytopenia but despite everything that was tried, all the
stops the vets pulled out, nothing helped and she slipped away.
I just wanted to thank you for letting us have Tiggy, and for
the nearly-14 years of happiness that she brought us.
Tigs was one of the sweetest, most loving and special little girls,
so happy with life and so full of fun.
She leaves a terrible hole in our hearts.
Heather xxx
Dandy The Comic Of Valgray
Di Dunkley
11.04.2011
Sad news the wonderful dandy was pts yesterday after his back
legs gave way,
always an exciting dog to own and run, you were never quite sure
what he was going to do next.
Taking me to championship agility, crufts and olympia what a star
.
After a bad beginning still giving his all .
BECKY
Southlawn Becky of Valgray
1996-2011
owner: Robert Tappin and The Tappin Family

Just a short note about Becks where does one start!
Becky came to us from Valgrays in May 96 Given to me as a present
by my Wife Rosemary as she thougth I was getting to the age when
I would be needing a smaller dog
Becky was great fun to train very different from a BC.
When doing Flyball she could not understand why after getting
the ball once I would ask her to do it again [terriers].
She had a slow start in agility gaining her first clear round
in 1998, her first placed rosette 20th in 2000- progressing to
grade 6 in August 2009 when I retired her.
She still enjoyed her walks out with the collies, until the last
month when she just went as far as the back garden,but still telling
the younger dogs to get out of her space.
Thank you for giving so much and not asking for much in exchange.
<<<<<It was with great sadness that I heard from Rosemary that Robert had lost Becky...she was such a fun loving dog and I know that they all loved her so much....It is always so sad when our family dogs pass away and I am sure that the Tappin Family are just feeling so empty, but all I would like to say is a Big Thank you for giving this little dog such a wonderful happy loving home that you all gave her...in her little life she lived in a palace and was loved so much by you all....my thoughts are with you at your loss.....R.I.P. Becky.....>>>>>>>>>>>>>Val
TOBI
Tobi Titan of Valgrays
January 24th 2011
owned : Richard Maslen:

Hi Folks Tobi finally succumbed to age and a mispent youth and
made his final trip to the Vets this evening.
He was a little unwell for a couple of days but became less aware
of his surroundings and was unable to walk properly last evening.
We're all very sad and have had a jolly good blub.
He was a good dog and just about one month short of 15 years old.
With much sadness from Richard
GEM:
Got a Gem of Valgrays
December 30th 2010
owned : Barbara Darvill


It is with a broken heart i have to tell you that our Gem (Got
A Gem from Valgray) had to be pts on 30th December 2010.
It was totally unexpected. She didn't want her breakfast (which
was not like her at all) and she was looking a bit down, so i
made an appointment with the vet and took her down that morning.
I just couldn't believe the outcome as she had shown no signs
before that she was under the weather.
The vet i saw felt that her spleen was enlarged so i had to leave
her there for an ultrasound and they phoned to say it looked like
a tumor and asked to do a laparotomy then phoned with the devastating
news that it was with lesions to other parts.
She was such a lovely and energetic dog who loved her agility
and she certainly showed me the difference between running a German
Shepherd and a Collie.
I brought her home in 1999 from Weymouth show, i wasn't even looking
for another dog, it was only when my daughter and a friend kept
on at me to look at her i relented and i fell in love with her.
Although she was not that good at her contacts, she won out of
Starters at Longleat in 2001 and then won Starters again two weeks
later at Southdowns.
Although she got lots of places we never seemed to graduate any
further (a few near misses though) at KC shows.
When UKA started i decided that the lower jump height was better
for her (as she was quite a slight little dog).
She did very well at these shows with winning and places and she
especially loved the steeplechase classes.
All in all its not about the winning, she was a super little dog
and we had lots of fun together, in and out of the ring.
I miss her so much
Barbara Darvill
ZEBBERDEE:
The Angels have you now.
September 3rd 2010

Your may remember Zebberdee, she came to Valgrays as a Stray, she was found wondering around and the dog warden picked her up...no one claimed her, so Zebby came to us.
Zebby had a huge Marcel Growth on her hind leg and our vet operated and removed this....he hoped that she would have a wonderful long life - sadly she was only with us
one year - it is with great sadness that we have to announce the sad loss of our lovely Zebberdee: She had a wonderful life with her new adoptive owners who loved her so very much.
but throughout this year Zebberdee's cancer took its toll, and she had to be admitted to the vets, as her lumps and bumps got so bad.
It was a tough decision to make but we knew what the decision was going to be and it had to be right for her........Zebby has now gone to rainbow bridge. A beautiful girl will shine in
this land of love and no pain......
Rest in peace you were such a beautiful dog and your nature was devine I know you will be missed so much by Mr. and Mrs. Reynolds and I will miss my visits to see you....
I would like take this opportunity to thank Mr and Mrs Reynolds for there kindness and love they gave to Zebby. My thoughts are with you...
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LIKELY LAD OF VALGRAY
'Laddy'
August – ish 1996 14 years ago
February 25th 2010
It’s with great sadness, that we have heard that Elaine' List's
'Laddy' has gone to over the Rainbow Bridge.
He was rescued by John Omlo down in Cornwall. He had been abused by humans, yet this chap never showed any malice towards anyone. He was a dog you would have always wanted your new pup to meet.
He had the best 'doggie skills' I’ve ever seen, in any dog.
He was a great ambassador to the agility world. He retired with
Spondylosis, having had two agility wins to Advance (G7) and countless
occasions taking Bethany to Crufts.
Valgray Junior Dog of the Year 1999 and 2000 Burgess Supa Dog
Final Winner 2001 Qualified for Agility Dog of the Year Final
at Crufts 2002 This is just a small selection of his achievements
that I can remember, but apart from all that, he had amazing soft,
long nose, and was a fab guy to live with.
Now Laddy noonoo, you can go and chew in half as many leads and toys as you like. You can bark as loud as you like whenever you like. I’m sure he taught Red that one! And run as fast as you like, chasing all the deer and those darn pesky cows, as you like!
Till we meet again, Laddy noonoo.
TAZZMANIC OF VALGRAY

'Taz' 1997-2010
My beloved Tazz went to sleep peacefully in my arms on 8 February 2010, having gone through cancer of one eye.
In June 2009, her eye was removed. We were told that the the chances of cancer spreading were 4%. On Christmas day she went blind, and two days later she had other eye removed. She was amazing and coped with blindness, going for walks and being almost normal! But having being warned the cancer might spread to her brain, she lost the plot. Though we gave her every chance with steroids, I felt that I had to ask my wonderful vet Tim to say goodbye to her.
Words cannot describe how I miss her and what a wonderful girl she was.
RIP Tazz Lindsay Parker
Lewis adopted from Valgrays 1999 to November 2009
Hello. My name is Lottie and I was Lewis’s
lifetime companion and best friend. I am a border collie and, like Lewis,
I was also adopted from Val. Our mother, Sue, adopted Lewis in the summer
of 1999 and he was probably aged between 1 and 2 years. She then adopted
me at Christmas because she said Lewis needed a friend.
Lewis was my best friend. I didn’t always treat him very well – I made him wait till I drank out of the water bowl first and I ate my dinner biscuits one at a time very slowly because he used to sit behind me, salivating, hoping to have the remains of my food. If I wasn’t careful he would steal my food. I only ever let him have a ball or tuggie if I felt like it; otherwise I hoarded them on the sofa out of his way.
When we were first adopted Sue had to ask a dog psychologist for help because Lewis was very badly behaved. He tried to help her but it was clear Lewis needed long term rehabilitation. The psychologist told Sue to put Lewis on a “naughty lead” whenever he would not stop barking or when he ran off with a rug and refused to give it back. Lewis, of course, knew how to stop this sort of psychology nonsense and after two days solved the problem of having to sit quietly on a lead for 10 minutes by eating the lead. Us Collies are very intelligent you know! So, Sue enrolled us into dog school where the trainers specialised in collies. We both did very well in the end. Lewis gained his Kennel Club Silver Award and I got my Gold Award. I think Lewis only got his silver certificate because he was the trainer’s favourite. He really enjoyed his school nights. He treated them as a lads’ night out, took every opportunity to pee in the worst places (the fire bucket was his favourite) and one evening broke out of the front door and ran off down the street into a pub. The trainer suspected Sue had an alcohol problem as Lewis was obviously at home in a pub and would not believe he never frequented such places! Eventually the trainer suggested he would not get any further until he could become more focused. I think this was a polite way of saying he was expelled.
Lewis had a wonderful life. We went on regular holidays and stayed in hotels that didn’t mind us being there. We had daily long walks and lots of friends. Sue once had a coffee morning for our friends and their owners. We had never had so many dogs in the garden before but we were all well behaved and only one of our friends got on the table to try to steal the cakes. We used to go to the annual dog show and Lewis loved that. Sue entered him once into Most Handsome Rescued Dog but he wasn’t even placed! Sue said it was fixed because someone much less handsome than Lewis won. Surely you will agree he was very handsome when you look at his photo?
Well, I miss him very much and so does Sue and our Dad. We are all heartbroken that he is no longer with us. But we feel he is still here in some way and always will be.
Lottie, Sue & Dad
Chocki adopted from Valgrays 1994 - 19th October, 2009
'AG. CH. Valgrays Mini Mouse'
(Story can be read here - scroll down for Chocki)
AG. CH. Valgray´s Mini Mouse (Chocki)
18/7/93 -
19/10/09
Where do I start. Chocki came to me when she was about 12
weeks old, from Val Phillips. She was very small but long and brown with a white
tummy, she looked like a chocolate eclair with legs, hence the name chocki. She
was a lively, active puppy and very bright. As she got older I started
training her for agility, little did I know how good she was to become.
She won many classes, qualified for nearly all the major finals and
competed at Crufts for eight years. She gained her Championship title to become
the first Agility Champion Mini in the UK.
I have always been very proud of
her and we have had a tremendous relationship. She came to Spain with me when we
moved here four and a half years ago and even won a few classes over here until
one day she let me know that she had had enough and did not want to jump any
more. She then spent long days lying in the sun on the top step of the swimming
pool.
Sleep well little Chocki, you will always be with me.
Carol. x
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Carol called me last night to inform me that her
beloved Chocki died on Monday. Although carol is in Spain now we always
keep in touch. Carol said she feels so lost without her as she was a big part of
her life; she also thanked me for finding her for her. So sad; Chocki was the
first mini dog to get Championship status and extra special as she was a
Valgrays. Our thoughts are with carol and family at this very sad
time....![]()
Val
Mattie adopted from Valgrays 2008
Mattie, my beautiful boy (photos at Valgrays after his marathon grooming session)

My house was usually home to three dogs and seemed
strangely empty with only me and Tessa when I lost two dogs very closely
together. I had been told about Val and her BC rescue so that is how I came to
be ringing her door bell to collect the little dog she had called Mattie.
Pictures had been downloaded of Mattie standing amongst more fur than was on his
body as there was no other way of dealing with such a mess; then a picture of
bath time and finally a rather forlorn little dog.
I lifted him into the back of my car --- destination unknown to him --- his past unknown to me. It was not too hard to piece it together as the only things he was not frightened of were live stock and farm machinery. I knew that he was rescued from the Welsh dog pound; frightened and filthy. Clearly he had spent most of his life chained up as he continually paced up and down like a caged animal. Other dogs were to be feared and it took some getting used to the fact that an outstretched hand was going to stroke, not hit and brushes were for grooming not landing a blow. I don’t know what went on between him and Tessa but she seemed to think it was her job to look after him even though she thought him a bit daft because he didn’t want to chase her and play. In turn he thought I was nice and kind to him but a bit stupid! If I wanted to play ball why didn’t I just get on with it instead of trying to involve him? He looked at me with those big brown eyes doubting my sanity and wondering why I had just thrown something away if I really wanted it and expected him to fetch it. Oh, well! We decided to concentrate on the practical things; walking on a lead and coming when called preferably not in his own good time etc.
I loved Mattie from the day I saw him and over the months a metamorphosis took place as he learned to love other dogs and trust people. We had fourteen months before he suddenly and unaccountably had a series of dreadfully severe fits, all in the space of a few hours. He ended up not knowing where he was or who I was. Clearly he was never going to recover from the terrible state in which all this had left him. I shall always be grateful to Val for my lovely boy: even though his untimely death has broken my heart.
“A dog may not make up the whole of life – but life doesn’t seem whole without one.”
Mary
Remembering Mattie (by
Val)

The day Mattie came down from the pound (photo left) -
he was such a sorry sight, matted, thin and very scared with empty eyes ...
so I went to task on him and it took me all day to get his matted coat back
into some glory. I remember that day well as Vikki came home from work and
she thought I had another dog on the floor as well as the one I was
grooming (photo right)? Mattie his name and when first with us he was
Mattie to look at; but what a lovely boy he turned out to be.
He had a lovely
deep grey merle to him and under all that matt he was alive with fleas, which we
sorted so they all went along with his previous bad life. He would never
have to endure a horrible life again; he was safe at last and from that day
on his life changed for the better.
I remember Mary contacting me and she was
interested in a younger dog but I told her about Mattie and she originally
said no as he was a bit older than what she wanted ... but after a few days Mary
called me back and arranged to come and see Mattie, I knew that once she had met
him he would be going home with her - and yes he did. Mattie had a
wonderful time with Mary although shorter than we hoped for but he was treated
to the life of total love - he needed nothing - he had Mary. I
was devastated when I heard the news that Mattie had died, but from the
original hell hole he must have lived in at least he met Mary and Valgrays and
had the best time of his life. To Mary our sincere sympathy goes to you in
the loss of Mattie - but also a toast to you for giving Mattie a wonderful year
which must have been paradise.
love Val xx
Charlie 1995 - 2009
Charlie
came into my life in June 2002 when I visited the NCDL (Dogs Trust) in
With my previous experience of a troubled Border Collie, I thought I could take Charlie on. The NCDL had named her A.R.Charlie (A Right Charlie!) and advised me, “Charlie has a dislike for children and must be kept under control in public places”. When I read her vaccination record it showed that she had spent part of her early life with Valgrays, and most of the rest with the NCDL.
A challenging few months followed with several near misses as Charlie tried to launch herself indiscriminately at people to bite them whilst out on walks. Expert advice was sought from a dog behaviourist who specialised in Border Collies, and gradually we worked through her problems. Whilst never completely “cured”, I felt Charlie and I understood each other – I knew what set her off, and the kind of people she didn’t like. Anyone with a dog was fine – anyone without could potentially be a target! She gradually calmed down more and more and incidents became less frequent.
Her favourite place was either under or on my bed – moving the pillows and duvet until she was snuggled up and comfortable. She was wonderfully affectionate but had such character and spirit. She liked to be top dog with the other dogs we walked with, and was quite choosy about who she wanted to play with. She loved people (despite the random launching!) and adored being stroked, fussed and cuddled.
In June 2009 at the age of 14 Charlie very suddenly became ill and deteriorated rapidly. I had to make the decision to have her put to sleep. It was one of the worst days of my life. I miss her so much, she meant the world to me. I am so glad we found each other. Sleep well Charlie, love always xxxxx
(02/09/2009)
BILLY adopted from Valgrays July 1997
I picked up a
then 10 month old border collie pup from Valgrays in July 1997 called
Billy. He passed away in early December 2007 with congestive heart failure
but we will never forget him. He developed into a
lovely dog and always had a great
temperament and personality. He also became an excellent house dog and had the
run of the house, came on several holidays to
We would like to
thank you for giving us Billy and it's wonderful to see you still doing great
work for collies. They have always been special to me since I had
Billy was
one of the family
and even much loved by our neighbours who
built a hatch in the fence for him to come and visit. They are a Muslin family
and the mother was fearful of dogs before she met Billy. When he died she cried.
Same with Karen's parents who loved him lots too. He won a lot of people over
with his friendly nature and boisterous antics, really very funny
sometimes! I made up the top picture in a frame as a Christmas memoir for
my wife Karen who was besotted with Billy. It depicts him throughout the
years since the time I collected him from Val in 1997!
Billy RIP
Died
By: Francis Mulleady
(Francis
BREEZE adopted from Valgrays April 1994
'April Fool of
Valgrays'
Breeze died on the 29th January and I miss her so
much, she was - out of all the dogs I have ever owned - my soulmate,
14 years
ago Val rang me to say she had 2 dogs for me to look at. When I walked
into her kitchen this little tri-colour pup was jumping up at her table, she
looked just like a gremlin! I saw the other collie Val had but I just fell
in love with this little person. The date was 1st April so of course I had
to call her April Fool of Valgray. The name Breeze came into my head, so
that was that - I had lost my heart!
She took to agility like the proverbial duck to water, my
first fast collie and what fun we had. She even won us into Senior.
Her first show was a little frantic though. She flew the A frame, didn't
complete the weaves (well there was a tunnel after them) and ran round in
circles but we finished the course more or less together.
She was my shadow,
coming with me everywhere, never wanting to be left behind, sitting in her cage
in the van looking very smug, and whenever I had a bout of road rage she would
add her voice to mine. The mornings of shows she would be first out of the
door - no way would she be left behind.
Breeze enjoyed her life to the full
and could still run faster than me in the veteran classes, although I could only
enter her in jumping classes because she took to jumping from the top of the
(lowered) A frame.
Last year she had a couple of strokes but recovered each
time but I knew we were on borrowed time. In January she went off her food
and started to be sick and she became very weak in her back legs. She had
a blood test and the vet said her kidneys were failing and she had maybe 2 to 3
days left. The next day she couldn't walk and had no control over her
bladder. She laid down on the sofa and when I sat beside her she looked at
me and pressed her head against me - she had had enough.
I laid her on my lap
and gave her a sedative so that she would fall asleep. We had a lovely
cuddle and I took her to the vets. She died very peacefully. I had
done the very thing I had always dreaded, but the very best thing for
Breeze.
My soul mate I love you and will always miss you.
by Sandra
Clancy
(Sandra 28/06/08)
Fergus did not come from Valgrays, but Val
has spoken to the lovely owners at length (trying to help) about his extreme
behaviours. Sadly the only kind thing was to give Fergus peace. Such
a difficult and heartbreaking decision, but such a brave one too. Fergus
is now stress free and is not struggling in life any more.
All of us at Valgrays send our throughts to this
family and to Fergus who is now at peace. Rest easy dear boy.
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They will not go quietly – the pets who’ve shared our lives,
In subtle ways they let us know their spirits still survive.
Old habits still can make us think we hear them at the door,
Or step back when we drop a tasty morsel on the floor.
Our feet still go around the place the food dish used to be,
And sometimes coming home at night we miss them terribly.
And although time may bring new friends and a new food dish to fill,
That one place in our hearts belongs to them .. and always will.
Author Unknown
(Val 04/07/2008)
GEM (Just a Gem of Valgrays) adopted from Valgrays 1994 - sadly passed away 8th November, 2008
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Fiona Bradley's lovely dog Gem suddenly passed away on Saturday
night 8th November, 2008 at the age of almost 14 years. Gem was never an
agility or obedience star, but she was a total cuddle bun and we thank Fiona for
giving her such a lovely life. Rest easy Gem .. all at Valgrays are
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(14/11/08)
GEORGE (Paw George of Valgrays) adopted from Valgrays 1993 - sadly passed away September, 2008
News has just arrived of Sue Loves beautiful Valgrays dog
who has passed away at the wonderful age of 16 years. Sue had such
fun with George and Sue's daughter also did so very well in juniors with
him. Paw George of Valgrays rest in peace -we at Valgrays are all
thinking of you at this sad time....
and
wish to thank you for giving him such a wonderful happy life.
(Val 29/10/08)
JESSIE (Snomiss Jessica of
Valgrays) adopted from Valgrays 1994 - sadly passed away
October, 2008
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I remember not so long ago going to the Diamond
Riding Centre with this lovely white ball of fluff and saying to Simon's mum:
'Ive got just the collie for your son' and she looked at me to say 'no
thanks'. Yet somehow at the end of the day Jessica went home with the
Tappin family and her life with Simon. The pair were inseparable,
Simon trained Jess to Agility and she took to this like a duck
to water and together they reached top class standard in
agility. They qualified many times for Crufts and Olympia, the
wins are so many to mention. So to Simon, thank you for giving Jess a
wonderful loving home and my thoughts are with you and your family at this very
very sad time. Another wonderful collie now at peace at rainbow bridge ..

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Simon had said that Jess was his best friend for 15 years and the most loyal dog anyone could have wished for.
(Val 13/10/08)
Adopted from Valgrays 1991
'Krazy Katie of Valgrays'
NOT ANOTHER BLACK AND WHITE!!
As I meet people on the ‘agility circuit’ and at various other canine events, the above comment is often heard. The Border Collie has become so much a part of our competitive lives that some people almost seem to resent them. I am writing this to explain why, after owning Golden Retrievers and various cross breeds, Katie convinced me that to be the partner of such a versatile and intelligent breed is so much fun that not only do we now have ‘another black and white ’organising our lives for us, but three ..... Jess, Phoebe and her daughter Zoe !!
Katie came into my life at the age of eight months, re-homed to me by Val Phillips of Valgrays collie rescue. Knowing I was looking for another dog, Val showed me a photo of a cute black and white pup when we met at Crufts in 1991. I didn’t want a collie and certainly not an almost completely black one but ...... from the moment Katie arrived at home ‘on trial’ she became part of the family. Within half an hour she had organised the boys into playing football and was showing her skill as a goalkeeper! The transfer fee was paid and she joined the Southlawn pack.
At the age of twelve months, having done some
basic obedience, we started agility classes and instantly this became the love
of her life. Val must have known more about her than I thought when she named
her Krazy Katie as she has very strong ideas about who is in charge on an
agility course! She has earned more eliminations than all the other dogs I have
owned put together. On the occasions she allows me to work with her, she is
brilliant. She won one novice class in 1992 and a second in 1993 and worked at
senior level until 1999. She qualified for many major finals and taught my son
Simon how to follow her around a junior course, sometimes with great success. In
1996 she won the KCJO ‘Agility dog of the year’ competition but was unable
to take her place in the final at Crufts. Her kennel mate Jess had also
qualified and went in her stead and after a few hints from Katie on how to
handle a human, Jess and Simon won the final in great style. Simon has learned a
great deal about handling a collie from Katie!! She is happy to work
agility with anyone who will take her onto a course. A favourite moment was when
Emma, probably aged about five at the time, sneaked off with her round my
intermediate agility course which I was due to judge the next day and produced a
clear round, whilst I had been eliminated twice whilst trying
the course out! At the time of writing this Kate is now ten years old and
working in veteran agility classes with the same ‘all or nothing’ approach as
usual. She was eliminated with Simon in a class in March and won one with me at
In 1993, Katie learned how to play flyball and although enjoying it, she doesn’t have the ‘Krazy’ attitude to this ball game which so many other black and whites do — strange considering how she loves agility. Nonetheless, she has the BFA title of Flyball dog and has collected various trophies and rosettes as a member of the Tigers and Knights flyball teams. In 1997, she taught my younger son Graham how to play flyball and we had great fun entering a competition as the ‘Tappin Tigers’, a team made up completely of our family members and dogs, which recorded the creditable time of 21.64 seconds.
Katie is a willing partner in any
enterprise. In 1994 she and Simon won a KCJO obedience competition in
In 1995 I decided that we might enjoy an
experience new to both of us, working trials. Katie agreed and qualified CDex at
her first trial in
Her sire (Vic – ISDS 151487) was a semi-finalist in ‘One man and his dog ’ and his daughter seemed to know quite instinctively how to work sheep. We had great fun having lessons with Katie Cropper, who lived quite near to us but having no sheep of my own to work meant that we did not carry on with this as I felt it was not fair to Kate to only let her work on the odd occasion.
In 1996, I heard of a ‘Three day event for dogs’ that was being run at the Spillers Festival of Working Dogs. Needing an incentive to get fit again after recent surgery, I decided Katie and I would enter this. The agility and obedience sections seemed possible but could I run round a cross country course with a Krazy Katie? The answer was, that after two months of early morning jogging around the local playing field desperately hoping that no one was watching me as I pleaded with Kate to ‘wait while I catch up’ YES I COULD! Katie loved it and at the Festival we came second overall. I’m sure Katie thought we could have won if I’d run faster. I think it was her crooked sits in the heelwork section that made the difference but she’d say that she always sits that way!!
Katie achieved her Midland Border Collie gold utility award in 1996 and through the club we met and enjoyed the company of many other collie owners. She also has her gold Kennel Club Good Citizen award to be proud of.
Kate is a registered PAT dog and for many years has loved and offered her paw to residents of local old folks homes. She is not a ‘cuddly’ dog, needing her own space around her, but with true Border Collie intuition she becomes a real softy on ‘PAT’ days, enjoying herself greatly. (I think it’s the extra food ---- jam scones with cream are her favourite !). One of the most touching comments I’ve heard was from a quiet and withdrawn elderly lady who rarely spoke to anyone. As she stroked Katie’s head she said “Today is my special day, it’s my Katie day” .
I am very lucky, because for me every day is a Katie day. As you can see, we have had many wonderful times together.
Rosemary Tappin, April
2000
KRAZY KATIE OF VALGRAY
Some time ago, I acquired a new dog,
Gentle and calm, mostly slept like a log!
Lovely I thought, she is just right for me,
steady and calm to learn AGIL-IT-Y.
Oh Krazy Katie, who gave you your name?
Is it Val Phillips* that we should blame?
For Krazy you are and crazy you’ll be,
now you’ve learnt about AGIL-IT-Y.
Steady and calm have gone by the board,
and countless eliminations we have scored!
When will you learn to listen to me?
It’s a partnership game this AGIL-IT-Y!
At show after show, we have tried and tried,
and now you wear a red rosette with pride.
A clear round today, you and me!
And a win in Novice AGIL-IT-Y!
July 1992
* Val Phillips of Valgrays Border Collie Rescue
(Rosemary
KERRY adopted from Valgrays January 1996
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KERRY
My mother and I first met Kerry on a Saturday afternoon in
the first week of 1996, when he bounded out into Val’s sitting room and landed
as a huge ball of fluff at our feet. We were struck by the
four enormous paws he had at the end of his little legs, even at five months –
Val said that this suggested he would be a big dog, and she wasn’t to be proved
wrong. He looked up at us with two huge brown eyes, tongue
sticking out of the corner of his mouth and tail wagging; and there was no way
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Not that those first few
weeks and months were always easy. We’d not only got
ourselves a fabulously gorgeous new puppy, but we’d got a ball of
energy. This was quite a culture shock after having spent the
previous eight years in the company of a docile little girl.
Kerry hadn’t been mistreated in his previous homes, but it was quite
clear that he had been a little bit neglected – this manifested itself most
obviously in the way he just exploded into furious activity at 6pm every night
for about three weeks, running madly around the ground floor of the house, up
the stairs round the first floor, back down and repeated this all over again
several times until he wore himself out. Clearly, this was
the time he had been programmed to expect to play. We slowly
started to train him out of this behaviour by walking for miles around
Having arrived in our house in a bitterly cold
and snowy January, he became accustomed to walking across the iced over garden
pond. We thought nothing of this until he decided to walk
over it again later in the month when the thaw had taken place…. this is my
first memory of him swimming, and perhaps explains why this was never his
favourite leisure activity!
That puppyish
behaviour gave way to a glorious adolescence, adulthood and old age.
Kerry remained my mum’s loyal and faithful companion after I got married
and left home, but he also became loved by all who came into contact with
him. He had such a gentle and loving nature that even people
who were scared of dogs, or professed not to like dogs, grew to love Kerry over
time…. he would never take no for an answer where his affections were
concerned. His nose became nicknamed the battering ram, as he
would badger anyone sitting in an armchair for a rub behind the ears or a tickle
on the tum. It’s remarkable how many phone calls, text
messages, emails and cards we received when we lost him – he seemed to touch the
heart of just about everyone who he encountered (apart, perhaps, from the man
who was hassling my mother on her front door step one day, whose trouser leg he
touched instead!).
When we were
out, he was always on the go, and would play ball for ages – right up virtually
until the end.
He loved his car rides, because they
almost always ended up somewhere exciting where things like balls, pigeons and
squirrels could be chased. Right through his life, walks
would last for hours, taking in all manner of people and other dogs.
I’m sure his friend, Meg the Alsatian, and the other regulars from the
park are wondering where he has gone.
For three years
after I got married, mum and Kerry lived across the road from my wife and me in
a quiet little cul-de-sac, and he became especially blessed as he now had two
homes just 5 seconds apart! He was rarely on his
own. He became the neighbourhood dog, and would often wander
from garden to garden visiting all the neighbours whilst mum gardened in the
front of the house. I think they feel his loss almost as
acutely as we do. When we moved to a much larger house about
fifteen minutes down the road, he remained a constant visitor and I’ll never
forget the look of wonder on his little face the first time he stepped out into
our new, very large and very grassy garden! I always called
in on them on my way to and from work, and loved my Kerry-time – usually being
presented with a different toy to play with before I had stepped through the
front door.
Not only did he come on
family holidays, he became the very heart of them, with nothing ever being done
that might spoil his enjoyment. He was so well travelled too,
taking in
When I was a child I dreamed and fantasised about
having a dog – but our hectic family life in those days didn’t really allow for
properly looking after one. In recent times, before he became
ill, I had often mused on how Kerry was the perfect dog of those childhood
daydreams. He grew into a fine boy, who was faithful, loving
and beautiful. In many ways, it was fortunate that the cancer
inside him had been growing unnoticed – it turned out to be inoperable anyway –
and it meant that his decline was so speedy in the end that he didn’t lose any
of his shape or bulk, and right up until the last day he looked just like the
Kerry we had always known and loved so dearly and tenderly.
We nursed him for eleven fairly traumatic days after his big operation,
and he’d recovered enough strength on the fifth day for us to enjoy a day
together which was just like it had always been – some gentle ball catching in
my garden, and lots of sniffing of plants and cocking of legs!
The photos from that day will remain a treasure to us.
The bond of love between
Kerry and my mum was so evident in those last ten days as she began with the
intention of sleeping downstairs with him, and ended up sleeping on the floor
with him. He died on
I have the firm
belief that Kerry is being looked after right now on the other side by my dad
and our other collie. One day we’ll play together
again.
Sleep tight, my
big baby boy – you’ll never be forgotten.
By Paul and Iris
Mould
Paul
MAX
adopted from Valgrays 1995

Max came to us from Valgrays, I
think it was in 1995 and he died after 10 happy years with us in
It is
along time ago and Val may not remember him, he came from
He was a lovely lad and a very popular chap and will always be in
our memory. He had
this poem in the
A Poem For Max
The
Legacy
When humans die, they make a will
To leave their homes and all they have to those they
love.
I to, would make a will if I could
write.
To some poor wistful, lonely stray, I leave my happy
home.
My dish, my cosy bed, my cushioned chair, my
toy.
The well loved lap, the gentle stroking hand, the loving
voice,
The place I made in someone’s heart.
The love that at last could help me to a peaceful, painless
end,
Held in loving arms.
If I should die, Oh do not say,
“No more a pet I’ll have, to grieve me by its
loss”
Seek out some lonely, unloved dog
And give my place to him.
This is the legacy I leave behind –
Tis all I have to give.
-author unknown
by Ian Plumb
(Ian
We adopted Megan from Val in March 1995, a
little tricolour bundle of fur from a litter Val had rescued
from Wales. Val told us that Megan had succeeded in letting the rest of the
litter out of their pen by rattling the cage until the door opened. The only pup
not succeeding in escaping was Megan . " What a bright dog
we thought" with pride - just what we wanted. A few weeks later my daughter
adopted Katy from the same litter - a beautiful white dog with a black
patch over one eye. Due to my daughter having a full time job we walked the dogs
together a
nd they soon became a partnership. Megan had the ideas and
Katy joined in with delight. They discovered cars and succeeded in stopping
them. We cured that and they went on to the park vehicles. We took them to
agility classes which, unfortunately, were held in a field with an
embankment along which ran a busy railwayline. In the middle of her turn
Meg heard the train, ran to the bottom of the embankment to run
alongside, followed by Katy and the rest of the dogs. We decided that some
intensive training was needed and one by one they were treated to classes of
Sit, Stay and most importantly, Lie down.They became so obedient that we
could and did take them everywhere. We enjoyed their company
for thirteen years until Katy, having a scan for what we thought was a
minor problem, was diagnosed with inoperable liver cancer and had to be
put to sleep. Megan lived on for another eighteen months when she succumbed
to the same condition. We miss them more than we can say. They enriched our
lives and have given us so many happy memories.
I have just received some terribly sad news, my mums beloved
Meisha has passed away.
12 years ago I went off with one of my friends
to view Meisha for my mum, at that time my mum did not want another sammie .. so
off I went, fell in love with Meisha and came back with her! My mum was
standing outside with her neighbour Pam as I pulled up - oh dear I could
see on her face that she did not look happy!! So out of the van Meisha
jumped; I gave the lead to mum to hold and ran as fast as I could!
From that day onwards mum fell in love with Meisha. Sadly after 5 years of
having Meisha, mum suffered a stroke and I had to try and nurse her as well as
look after all of mums cats and dogs.
One day I was out
driving and there, walking along the road, was this lady and she had a sammie
with her; I stopped the van and spoke to her saying does she know of anyone
who may be interested in adopting Meisha. Anyway that night Mickie phoned
me to say her and her hubby would love to see Meisha and meet my mum. Mum
was very upset but realised that
I just could not look after everything so Meisha went
off to Oxted with Mickie and her husband. Mickie and her husband were such
a lovely couple, both retired and lived in Oxted, Surrey and also had a place in
France. I went and saw Meisha and if I remember correctly, I think Meisha
came to see my mum as well.
So over the years Meisha lived in
France and England. She was so loved by Mickie and her family and had a
wonderful life with them. I kept in touch and we emailed each other many
times. Meisha had a very busy life and I could not have wished for a
happier place for her to have been. Mickie, her husband and family loved
Meisha to bits, Meisha had such a lovely sunny smiley face that who ever met her
could not help but love her.
My thoughts are with you both, and I
would like to thank you so much for giving Meisha the wonderful happy, much
loved, life she had with you both.
This is now an end to the
chapter of my mums pets, they have all now passed away and have joined my
mum at Rainbow Bridge.
Be happy Meisha you are now with mum,
Timmy, Tyler and all your other doggie friends.
love you for
ever
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(Val 10/09/2008)
NUALA
adopted from Valgrays 2007
Beautiful little Nuala……if I had owned you from a puppy then
you would have still been here with me now. I fell in love with you too quickly
which broke my heart.
Next time around
things will be very different and that is a promise, and until then enjoy your
new surroundings…Trixie will take good care of you.
Loads of love …
Dad (Ray)
(Ray
PIP in Valgrays 2009
It is with great sadness and heavy heart that
we have had to let Pip go to rainbow bridge. This was
a decision we have not taken lightly and many tears have been shed over this
dear girl.
Sadly Pip's previous life (crated, tormented and being
in a total loveless place at the scrap yard - photo top right) took its toll on
her and she was a very stressed dog in the real world. Her comfort zone
was a crate!! She simply did not know how to mix or be friendly with
people or other dogs and the longer we had her the worse situations
became. No amount of love or care could help dear Pip to cope. We
took serious advice from many vets and
experienced dog handlers. All we can say is that Pip
had a lovely time here (see photo left and bottom right), she experienced
freedom, was loved. fed and well cared for. Pip is the first dog we have
been unable to help for a long time, and we all feel her loss deeply. All
we can say now is that our dear Pip is in Peace, free from torment - and
she will never ever be forgotten.
We would like to thank the many
kind folk who offered Pip a home; but with so many deep rooted, man made
problems in her it was just unfair to Pip to be passed on.
A Dogs Soul
Author
Unknown
A Dogs Soul
Every dog
must have a soul
Somewhere deep inside
Where all his hurts and
grievances
Are buried with his pride.
Where he decides the good and
bad,
The wrong way from the right,
And where his judgement carefully
Is
hidden from our sight.
A dog must have a secret place
Where every thought
abides,
A sort of close acquaintance that
He trusts in and
confides.
And when accused unjustly for
Himself, He cannot
speak,
Rebuked, He finds within his soul
The comfort he must
seek.
He'll love, tho'he is unloved,
And he'll serve tho'badly
used,
And one kind word will wipe away
The times when he's
abused.
Altho' his heart may break in two
His love will still be
whole,
Because God gave to every dog
An understanding Soul!
(03/06/09)
QUINCY adopted from Valgrays at 12 weeks old in 1994 - sadly passed away 27th September, 2008
Coming back from holiday and catching up on the news I
was so upset to hear the loss of Lyn's Quincy. I just cannot believe all
those years have gone so quickly. I remember Lynda coming up to me to
get Quincy he was a tiny white ball of fluff and she fell in love with
him. He became a loving pet to Lynda and John although he tried a bit of
agility, he preferred to lay on the settee. As he got older his coat got
longer and curly and we both thought he was a cross with a Sheep!!!!!
Dear quincy so kind not a nasty bone in his body, loved by
so many.
My thoughts are with you Lynda and of course John and to
Quincy's friends who must miss him so much .. he is now at peace on that lovely
settee over in Rainbow Bridge.
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It's
just a little, but means alot
To say dear friend, I haven't
forgot
The years have gone, the tears now
shed
Quincy's bed an empty space,
But his spirit is now in a happy
place.
VAL
From Lynda: Have had to have
Quincy put to sleep today. Unfortunately when they took blood tests it was
not conclusive so the vets did a scan and they found that he had a very large
tumour on his spleen. The vets could not find that it was bleeding and
still were not sure why he was anaemic. We had three options, one
was for the vets to operate and remove the spleen but this is a major operation
and at 14 years we felt it was not fair to put Quincy through it. They
could have put him on steroids to see if that helped with the anaemia but did
not hold out much hope so we took the third option. Quincy until this
morning was very happy and healthy but he was not happy today and was not really
‘with it’, we did not want him to suffer and felt if we took either of the other
two options this would cause him to suffer and he would not be such a happy
fellow.
We are missing him very much and still cannot believe he has gone
Rest in peace my boy
(27/09/08)
Reggie 1995 - 2009
Reggie was Keith's beloved dog; estimated age
between 12 and 14. Reg was a stray from the Birmingham area
and some how he got handed into the RSPCA at Godstone, but how no one
knows!!! Keith went, saw him and
brought him home. Keith had Reg around 4 years before we met and in
the last 6 years I had been part of Reg's life as he came to live with
me when keith and I moved into together.
Reg could be a real
grumpy dog!!! He did not like being groomed, not like his nails being
cut, liked his own way and always went in another direction to the way you
wanted to walk. His love was my van and he would sleep in that all day
long; perhaps that is how he came to be in Surrey - he got in someone's
car? But we loved him and miss him terribly.
So thank
you Reg for being such a grand faithful dog and bringing Keith into my
life; I will never forget you and I am sure your Dad will grieve for
you for many months. Reg is at rainbow bridge now - happy -
and without anymore pain .....
God Bless you
love ..... Mum and Dad xxx
Dear Riley
Just ONE phone call and just
ONE chance was all he needed
No one came forward
Riley was pts on

(Val
RORY 'Red Rory of Valgrays' adopted from Valgrays April 1999 - sadly passed away December 2008
It is with great sadness that Wendy had to say
goodbye to her beloved Rory. Rory came into valgrays as a stray, picked up
by the
warden with another collie. Wendy saw Rory and decided
no at that time, but it did not take long for her to pop ,back over and took
Rory back to Harlow to spend a happy, wonderfully fulfilled
life.
Rory suffered with bouts of sore feet and lost his toenails
occasionally, the vet got it under control but after a few years his immune
system broke down.
Poor wendy will be lost without her little boy,
but we are thinking of her at this really sad time.
Rest easy Rory .. all at Valgrays are thinking
of you and Wendy at this time
(Val 05/12/08)
Sally - small, smart, sparkly and super
sharp ... and loud but rarely tuneful.TESS adopted from Valgrays 1998
Tess came to us from Valgrays almost 10
years ago along with her pup, Nell (who will be 10 on
I am afraid that the sad news is that Tess died on Thursday
night (
As you will understand, we are greatly saddened, but in time we will come to remember all the good times we had with her: there is only one immortality, and that is to be remembered by those who have loved and known you in life, and she will be with us for as long as we are here.

Nell is rather lost and lonely looking, but getting lots of love and attention. To anyone who is looking at rehoming a dog that has lost a leg or who has a dog that has to have an operation, don't give up on that dog!
I can truthfully say that Tess had a good and fun filled life with us, and gave back many, many times over everything we gave her.
By: Annette, Michael and Nathan
(06/01/2008)
I have just
learnt that Val's beautiful TIlly has passed away at the
wonderful age of 16 years. Val and Vikki had such fun with Tilly, and
she was so loved.
Tilly has been poorly for a while, but she was coping well until the last few days. Sadly Val knew it was time and at 12.15 on 3rd April, 2009 Val had to do that kindest thing we can for our loved dogs.
Rest Easy dear Tilly and lots of love and hugs to Val, Vikki and Keith at this sad time...
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Condolences from others;
I am so sorry to hear about Tilly, she was so lovely. It was my pleasure to groom her, thank you for letting me ... Luv 'n' hugs from Gina, John, Libby and the Gang xxxxxx
Tilly will be running as fast as the wind with Thomas ... Pat xx
Remember the happy times and you gave her a wonderful life ... Sarah
So sorry Val, I am still struggling at times over Tiff. They were so very special ... Mandy
So sorry to hear your sad news, its awful losing Tilly after all those years. Your pets are so special and part of the family and thats why its so sad ... Jenni xxxx
So sorry, she was a star ... Lin x
Tilly the Terror of Valgrays 12/01/94 to 03/04/09
With very heavy heart I had to say goodbye to my
dear beloved Tilly, she spent 15 years with me and Vikki and what a
huge hole this has left. Last August (08) we were told she had heart
failure and would only last 2 weeks. 8 months extra we had with her and made
every day a magic day. She was always a fast thinking
collie and never had a days illness, she even walked her last walk into the
vets. Vikki came in early morning before going to work and sat with
her and said her goodbyes as we all knew that the time had arrived.
I had Tilly when she was a pup of 8 weeks from Sara Boxall, I
remember the day well - it was
Mid Downs agility show and Sara brought 3 pups to
the show .. in the car park Sara had 3 brown and white pups in her arms and said
to me 'which one do you like Val', bearing in mind I was not wanting
another dog as I was just going through my marriage break-up and felt low
.. so I just said if I liked one it would be that one (Tilly).
With that she was put into my arms and the rest is now a wonderful
history. I came home with a pup - and yes she lived up to her colour red;
flame temper, hot headed, a terror on 4 legs .. but I loved her - she was home
to stay with me and Vikki, and it gave me something else to think about.
Little did I realise what an adventure I would have in being her
mum.....
Her first 2 years we did not do very much I
played a bit at Nancy Hudson agility school, but my heart was not in competing
at that time. Time went by and Vikki and I started to train her in
our field. Next thing Vikki was competing and then qualified Tilly for the
Crufts Juniors - she eventually ended up taking Tilly to Crufts 4/5 times
and Tilly and Vikki's best was 2nd place. She competed around the shows
with me and eventually became a Senior at 5 years old.
Tilly
was NOT one of the most greatest dogs to have amongst other bitches and we
had many a fight with me getting her off the other dogs .. she took this
temperament from her dad JACK THE BASTARD (as Sara called him) The biggest
fight we had was when Tilly attacked my lovely white collie Tessa and with the
result of that fight I had to have Tessa put to sleep. I did not
speak or look at Tilly for weeks .. I generally hated her .. but time heals and
Tilly took up being the boss in our household of dogs and that is where she
stayed right up till the end.
Tilly taught me a lot she was my
saviour during my bad days - she showed Vikki how to get eliminated at shows -
she taught me that being red in colour she did have that naughty way about
her and I had to be on my toes with her around other dogs, but I never gave up
on her .. she was my partner, my friend and Vikki's best mate as
well.
Keith my partner had known Tilly for 5 years and he was so
upset when he came to the vets with me that I ended up consoling him more
than thinking about how upset I was .. bless him.
So to reflect on Tilly's life she had a wonderful
time - and when the time was right I allowed her with dignity to fall
asleep in my arms and slowly she went peacefully to Rainbow Bridge.![]()
Thank you Sara for giving Tilly to me I had the most
wonderful time with her. She was my special girl. Tilly you will be
running with your friends now and terrorising them. Say 'hi' to Tom,
Tessa, Abby, George, Meg and Cree .. all my dogs that I have loved and
lost, but my heart is always with them.
Nite nite my Tilly the
Terror I will love you for ever ... your mum xxxxx Val ![]()
TRIX adopted from Valgrays 1997 - sadly passed away 11th November, 2008
Back in the spring of 1997 we sadly lost our old
rescued collie cross “Patch” at the grand age of eighteen and a half. This
left his young friend Poppy (a rescue collie cross bitch from Lissington near
Lincoln) alone; so we made enquiries though Valgrays Collie Rescue and the only
dog at the time in Lincolnshire was a two year old collie bitch on a
farm in the Vale Of Belvoir near Grantham in
Lincolnshire. We arranged to go look and we brought her home.
She had lived outside in a kennel and had two litters of pups. Trix was
very gentle but had a very keen eye, too keen for working sheep we were
told. She settled into life in a home, although at times her
obsessive behaviours could be very challenging; especially where cats were
concerned! One of her favourite hobbies was watching the guinea pigs ! We
persevered and she went to obedience training where she did very well apart from
the retrieve, she never would present the article, she would throw whatever it
was at you, highly amusing to us and for her!! We did try agility with her but
she could never manage to jump very high, we later found out she had hip
dysplacia. Not that you would ever know it from the way she ran about and loved
to play with a ball or squeaky. She always went to agility shows with us over
the last 8 years as we added to our doggy family with two poodles, and our
daughters little collie cross, even though she couldn’t compete (also as she
just got too over excited). Trix enjoyed many camping trips, holidays,
days away in our caravan and had everything a dog could want. About 9 months ago
she had been diagnosed with severe arthritis in her left back knee and had the
beginnings of spondylosis in her spine, but she was still enjoying life right up
until the week before she died. She suddenly became ill at the beginning
of November 2007 and sadly while having tests our vet discovered she had two
large tumours in her bladder and she would not have long to live and not have a
very good quality of life, so we made the extremely hard choice to let her go
peacefully while still under the anaesthetic. She had also become very
anaemic as her body tried to fight the aggressive cancer. She died on
rememberance day Nov 11 2008, aged 10 years. We will always remember that
dear sweet natured girl, and thank you Valgrays for making it possible to
share our lives with such a lovely collie girl “Trix”
From Janet, Steve, Michael and Fiona Mckenna and all trixs doggy friends
(12/12/08)
TRIXIE adopted from Valgrays
1997
Shortly
after losing my second dog Trudie, I was put in touch with Val, and that very
same dark November night back in 1997 I drove over there to see a beautiful
little 2yr old collie, one of 40 dogs destined for destruction but thankfully
rescued by Val. The minute she was shown to me I fell in love with her, and I
did not expect to be allowed to take her home with me right there and
then.
Trixie really was
something special, and no matter how many dogs I’d had prior to her, and no
matter how many dogs I have in the future, she will always remain that way. Much
much more than just a dog, she was a lifelong companion for nearly 10 years, and
in all honestly and in all that time, not once did she ever display any kind of
aggression to either me or anyone else. She knew when I was
feeling slightly under the weather and come over for a
cuddle.
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Trixie’s favourite
pastime was swimming and anywhere there was water then she would be there. The
last 18 months of her life were spent swimming regularly at Greyfriars, which
really did help her arthritic legs and also boost her
morale.
She literally
followed me everywhere, even into the loo, and I have lost count of all the
different holidays we had spent together down in
My Mother, departed
since 1973, she has the job of minding all my pets and I just know that Trixie
will be one of the first to come and meet me when my time is
up.
Meanwhile Treeks,
enjoy your new surroundings and be sure to wait for me
please.
Lots of love … Dad (Ray)
(Ray
I already had 9 Border Collies, mostly of my own breeding,
and a fluff ball (German Spitz Klein) called Widget who thought she was the
ruler of the canine and human kingdom! I rang Valgrays and told her
I would like to adopt Trudie, but there was a petrol crisis and strike on at the
time and to get her from Surrey to Lincolnshire was going to be a big
problem. Problem?? Not in the doggy world. Several Obedience and
show people shuttled her from Surrey to Newark showground, and I brought her
home from there.TYLER adopted
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Tyler came into our life in the year DOT
.. he and his friend were brought to us to home. Tyler and his pal were
homed to a pub in Merstham, but sadly Tyler was returned .. because he had
become a champion dart catcher!!! He would leap into the air and
catch the darts mid flight to the dartboard! They were so worried he was
going to be injured by this 'game' that he came back to Valgrays where my dear
mum fell in love with him and claimed him for herself. His friend stayed
in the pub, and she is still happy.
Tyler was a fab collie, always
on the go, loved his toys, ran the garden in a figure of eight and generally
drove my mum insane .. but she loved him to bits .. his only problem he had was
that he did not like cats or small dogs .. but mum worked around that.
Sadly
when mum had her stroke everything was put on hold and I had to try and
find someone for Tyler because he did not like my little papillions .. a distant
friend I knew from agility days back in the 80's contacted me for an older
dog and he came down to see Tyler. Well the rest is history, Tyler was
Dicks constant friend he was a good family dog and protected them all with
zest!!!!!!!
A few weeks back I had a call from Dick and he
said that Tyler was very unwell and very old and the kind thing for him now is
to be pts. Dick and Barbara his wife gave Tyler a wonderful
end. His ashes are with the families other pets in the gardens of Dignity
Pet Private Cemeteries and Crematoria grounds near Hook in
Hampshire.
So I would just like to say; thank you Dick and Barbara
and your family for giving Tyler a wonderful few years, I am sure my mum was
waiting for him at those lovely gates with open arms. He was certainly a
dog who left an impact on everyones life.
Val
phillips
Rest in peace Tyler with all your TOYS and give my mum a
big lick, I have wonderful memories of you which will last with me a
lifetime.
(Val 31/05/2008)
Ziggy 'Ziggy Zoom of Valgrays' 1992 to 16th August 2008
See Stories page (scroll down to 'Ziggy') - CLICK HERE
We have just received some very sad news that ZIGGY, owned
and loved by Di Dunkley sadly passed away on Saturday after a short illness
...... Ziggy was 16 years old and Di gave her such a wonderful life. She
loved her agility and took Di to dizzy heights in agility, but foremost she was
a wonderful friend and companion to Di.
We are all thinking of you
at this sad time.
Val and all at Valgrays.....gif)
(Val 18/08/2008)
In loving
memory of our dear Dot Phillips (12/10/16 to 06/06/04) - 5
years ago we lost a wonderful lady
'HEAVENLY GOOD BYE'
Wings up to
heaven
bid your good
bye
Many who loved
you
they surely did
cry
Sitting today thinking
of
you with a sigh
In memory at
heart
your angel wings
fly
Possible good bye
was meant
to be said
Daily your
footprints
in our hearts have
led
You live on forever
held in
endless a heart
Always walking with
us
we are never apart![]()
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It is with great sadness that I have to announce
that Dorothy Alice Phillips, known to everyone as 'Dot' passed away peacefully
on Sunday, 6 June after a five year battle against a crippling stroke. She has
asked that at this time, instead of flowers, those who wish to can support her
favourite charity, Valgray’s Border Collie and Animal Rescue.
Dot was the founder of the Valgray’s name, used first of all as the name for the Pet Shop in Whyteleafe – Surrey, that she kept with her husband Harry the name being derived from the names of their children Valerie and Graham.
The Valgray’s name has, in more recent years, become synonymous with Animal Rescue, and is linked, inextricably to the specialist knowledge and help needed with re-homing of Border Collies. The name is also well recognised and respected in the Agility Circuit throughout the United Kingdom and beyond.
Dot started of her 'Doggy' career breeding Samoyeds – a breed that she adored and had at least one with her at all times.
She was also known to everyone at the Purley and Coulsdon Agility Shows where she looked after the Judges, Stewards and Helpers, providing the much needed 'Cups of Tea', biscuits and a good chat.
When Dot’s daughter Val started to become interested in Border Collies, she was there as a supporter, helping with the strays that Val brought into their homes. Dot was the one that used to take care of the older rescue dogs and gave them a loving and dignified home for the remainder of their lives, however long or short that was to be and she will have been greeted by many wagging tails of her departed canine friends.
Dot had a passion for life, she seldom sat still for a moments rest, with the exception of course of Coronation Street, and the world just has to stop for 30 minutes every Monday, Wednesday and Friday.
Dot’s wish was to remain in her own home for as long as it was humanly possible and with the loving care of her daughter Val and the dedication of the Doctors, nurses and helpers from Social Services her wish came true and when Dot’s time eventually came on the afternoon of Sunday 6th June she was in her own bed, surrounded by her family and Timmy, her faithful cat, was curled up on her lap.
She had fought long and hard for five years and was very tired and enough was enough, she just slipped peacefully away to join all of her other friends of the two and four legged variety on the other side.
Dot, our love goes with you and you will be in our minds and in our hearts for ever.
We promise to keep the good name of Valgrays alive and growing from strength to strength and to keep up the good work that you started.
Until we meet again, we can only say that we love you and we miss you.
(Val Phillips 27/11/07)
It is with great sadness that I write
to inform you that Lesley Olden's dear mum has passed away
......many of you doggie folk will remember Lesley's mum travelling
around the shows, holding coats, holding dogs, being Lesley's groom and
telling Lesley what to do ...... Lesley's mum always called Lesley
"Susan".
Diana (although will always be Lesleys mum to me) was a
super lady, I go back at least 30 years in knowing her and I must admit she
always had time to speak to me and always asked after the rescue dogs.
Although Lesley never had a rescue, she did many years ago have a little brown
and white collie bitch from a litter we bred, and she called her Nedlo
Teasey Weasey. Lesley took her to the TOP OF AGILITY. Diana was always
very fond of this little dog and at the Purley agility shows she always had long
chats with my dear mum, along with many chats with me.
At this time
of sorrow I would like to say to Lesley and family and friends we are all
thinking of you and send our sincere condolences to you all.![]()
We must also mention that it was a great honour to
think at this time of such sadness that your family have wished that
donations to be sent to: Valgrays Border Collie Rescue
and Isle of Wight Ambulance, I am sure that if you make contact with Lesley she
will give you further information.
Rest in Peace
Val x
Sadly I have to let people know that Mum - the' Agility Mum' as she was fondly known to many in the agility world -passed away peacefully yesterday, the 16th February. She was admitted to Southampton General Hospital with heart failure ten days ago and was due to have been discharged last Friday when she suffered a heart attack and became very poorly. She regained consciousness Saturday evening. I consider myself very lucky that we were both able to say everything we wanted to say before she drifted away for the last time.
For 25 years Mum travelled up and down the country with me to shows, always cheerful and always happy to safe guard someone's coat, handbag or pushchair whilst they were competing. So many happy memories.
No flowers by request but all donations gratefully received to either Valgrays Border Collie Rescue* or Hampshire & Isle of Wight Ambulance. Please forward to AH Cheater, Funeral Directors, Alma Road, Romsey, Hampshire.
Lesley Olden
A tribute to Diana Olden
What can I say but my thoughts are with you. When I read that you had lost your mum I truly cried, because I have loads of memories of her around the shows especially at the Old Purley shows ... your mum and my mum chatting. Both mums were our backbone and to lose them is very very hard.Your mum will be so proud of you, Lesley - your talent with the dogs, even going back to the horses, but the dogs were you. You were born a true dog trainer and I always admired you and your ability to work them.
At this time of such sorrow I am thinking of you. Your mum will be watching over you, and when you do something wrong you will think 'my mum would be mad at that', because when I do errors in life I think my mum would give me what for.
So Lesley, be strong. I will be with you in my thoughts. Please convey my condolences to your family and friends who knew your mum. She was so sweet and will be sorely missed by all.
Val Phillips
If folk wish to donate to Valgrays in memory of Diana they can do so via the Funeral Directors (as above) or via the link 'to donate' on this website (via Paypal or Credit Card). Thank you Lesley and family for thinking of Valgrays as this terribly sad time.

Sadly Val has only just heard about the very sad passing of Liz Ritson. Liz was such a character and with her husband Jock they were instrumental in starting up an agility club which was their life. Jock sadly passed away some years ago. And now we have to tell people that Liz Ritson passed away Monday 14th April, 2008. Liz was always one to help others out, and if a job needed doing she would volunteer. She had some lovely dogs, and she adopted Jodie from Valgrays some years ago. Liz was with her partner Dan, and our thoughts go out to Dan and her family. Liz will be sorely missed by all those who knew her.
By now most of the dog world has
received the terrible news of Zoe West and her friend who were tragically killed
on the M6 on 4th July 08.
I am not sure how to start as, like
everyone, we are still in terrible shock.....
We all knew Zoe with her wonderful GSD'S competing around
the agility show scene, larger than life and she was such a lovely person, we
always had conversations when at shows, Zoe always interested in my rescue dogs
and me always talking about her lovely sheps....
Few weeks back Zoe
and I met up on the film location of Trinny and Susanne, nobody knew till that
day who would be selected, so it was a wonderful surprise to see Zoe and a few
others I knew......
Filming was over 2 weeks and we had such fun,
Zoe (typical of her sense of humour), saying that some of her inmates would be
better running this film unit then the ones now!!!!
We were all
asked to go to the studios in London, and the waiting around was a long time,
again Zoe decided to play about and we both got told off, to keep the noise
down.

My last thought of Zoe was when we had to travel back
from
On the last day of filming we let our hair down, Marion
my friend took some lovely pictures of Zoe, me and Trinny and at the end of the
day we took our shoes off and run our dogs around an agility course which had
been set up .... so in posh dresses and no shoes this was the real
us.
I have wonderful memories of Zoe and our filming days together,
the dogs had also a great time.
The news which eventually came to
me about this terrible accident has just numbed me
completely. My thoughts are with her family, her friends and
all who knew Zoe. Her dear dogs will miss her as
well. So to Zoe ....
No farewell words were spoken,
No time
to say goodbye,
You were gone before we knew it,
And only God can tell us
WHY.
One thing I'll always cherish
No matter what life
sends,
A memory of the times we spent,
Just being good
friends.
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(Val 11/07/2008)
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Myself and my friend first met Zoe on location filming for Trinny
and Susannah. Long days waiting around for filming were spent
chatting away about our dogs and people watching. What fun
and laughs we all had!
On one of the days
filming we had to go to the studios in
On
the final day of filming, we all had so much fun together and we exchanged
mobile numbers between us so that we could stay in touch. We
had arranged to meet up in July and August at a couple of agility
shows.
Just like others, we are still in shock and utter disbelief that
we won’t be seeing each other again and when we said goodbye on the final day,
we would never have dreamt that it was our final
goodbye.
Jo &
Fliss
Friends are quiet angels who lift us to our feet when our wings have trouble remembering how to fly

IN MEMORY OF PAT PLEASANTS…..
Last year many of Dog Training Weekly readers
and friends saw the sad loss of a lovely lady Pat Pleasants .. Her connection
with dogs was she originally bred
Pat Pleasants husband John died in 1997 and all the dogs had gone before Pats’ death last year.
She and John trained for some years at Cippenham dog club also Hamworth and Sunbury.
That’s a little about Pat Pleasants life I know so far. Last year I had a phone call from Pat Emblow saying that Pat Pleasants had passed away and was told that she had great regard for the work of the Valgrays Border Collie Rescue and myself in particular (as she was a regular reader of Dog Training Weekly)
With Pat Emblow and Jennifer Gower they agreed to be executors of her will.
Pat Emblow informed me that Valgrays had been left some money along with other rescues. Well I was speechless, having donations left is such a lovely and worthwhile gesture but on the other hand it is not so rewarding knowing that someone has died.
Pat Emblow spoke to me many times and asked
what I would really like and I informed her that it would be smashing to have a
Dog Van, caged, air con etc, which could replace my van which is well known by
Greenflag. She laughed! 
Also to get the rescue kennels repaired, fencing done, vet accounts sorted etc. So the reason I am now writing to you all is that I wanted to let you all know that Valgrays Border Collie Rescue became the new owner of a Renault Trafic Van, caged out by K9 cages, air con etc. fencing done, under cover canopy for the dogs to stay dry and the vet’s accounts have all been sorted.
Valgrays Border Collie Rescue would like to take this opportunity of thanking Pat Emblow and Jennifer Gower in completing the wishes of Pat Pleasants and I can assure you all that the wonderful donation that we received will go to a very good cause 'THE DOGS'.
God Bless you Pat Pleasants may you look down on Valgrays Border Collie Rescue and see just what a difference you have done for us.
Val Phillips
Valgrays Border Collie Rescue
(Val 25/11/07)